Family support worker
The family support worker is available to offer information, advice and support to families affected by cancer with children.
Macmillan family support
A team of trained and experienced practitioners who work with children, parents/carers, grandparents and other family members.
How are you involved with children?
- I’m a parent/ grandparent?
- I am concerned how my treatment may impact my childcare responsibilities and the support I offer my family?
- I do school runs, sleepovers, take children to after school/leisure clubs
- I am not sure what to say when they ask questions and I sometimes think they will worry about talking to me and ‘hold it in’?
What children need when someone close to them has cancer
Children are affected regardless how much they know and they:
- are quick to notice change of routine, change of mood, tension and anxiety in the home
- can see when people are feeling poorly
- may feel left out, have I done something wrong?
- may wonder if they can catch what you have?
- have a right to know what cancer is
How can we help?
Emotional /psychological support for you and your family can come via:
- information, advice, parenting/grandparents support
- liaison with schools or colleges
- workshops for children
- signposting and referral to other agencies
- bereavement support
- the facts – simple language, small chunks
- the name of the cancer
- what will happen next? – surgery/treatment
- to be prepared for obvious changes i.e. hair loss
- there’s hope – “doctors are working hard to make me better”
- that it’s not their fault and they have done or said nothing to have caused this
- the truth – children have active imaginations.
- reassure them – all their different emotions are normal
- give them opportunities to ask questions and talk about their feelings
- help them to recognise, name and deal with emotions in safe ways
- help them to come up with their own coping strategies
Children need to:
- keep to usual routines
- keep as normal as possible – school, clubs, etc.
- be flexible and relaxed if changes need to be made
- involved – helping can make them feel good
- stay consistent – boundaries help children to feel safe
- prepare for separations – toys, photos, calendars, books
- continue going to school – it gives stability
- stay in touch with teachers
- keep talking
How to contact us
Call us directly on 01473 715748 / 01206 745347 or ask your nurse, consultant or Cancer Support and Information Centre Team to make a referral.
Family Support – talking to children links
Macmillan Family Support worker – Colchester
Emili Tack: Emili supports families going through a cancer diagnosis and treatment.
She is based at the Cancer Wellbeing Centre, but can also visit families at home and children, in school.
Emili supports and gives information and advice to carers. She also works with children and teenagers who need support. Contact: 07591 986818
Macmillan Family Support worker – Ipswich
Angelika Rohrig: Angelika supports families going through a cancer diagnosis and treatment.
She is based at the Woolverstone Macmillan Centre in Ipswich, but can also visit families at home and children, in school.
Angelika supports and gives information and advice to carers. She also works with children and teenagers who need support. Contact 07909 878361